True, but guess what? eBay has a futher fleecing policy, whereby if a client opens a case, and it reaches to them "resoluting" it, meaning if they close it with a decision towards refund to buyer, which I guess is always the case, they DO NOT refund you the 12% selling fees. I know, it sounds outrageous, in my case to be without the item, with fees paid and "non-refundable" according to eBay. So no, the 15% discount I gave to this fellow was simply to give him a nudge towards him paying as well as to show I'm the better person, or rather than I'm the only reasonable person among the two of us
And yes, I did ask eBay straight away after this whole episode why I have not got refunded the selling fees at least, and they "confirmed" that since the refund was forced by them, despite not even giving me any time to react since said toad went and escalated the case, their policy is not to refund selling fees in such cases, presumably to cover John's salary, and by John I mean the undoubtedly South-Asian fellow probably being paid 2$/hour working in some overcrowded support center. The only thing I got back was the 5$ or so from the PayPal fee paid.