The last fortnight has taught me many lessons. Here are some.
Don't take the friendship of your nearest and dearest for granted ever!
Always (at all times) keep one eye your partners well being (state of mind).
Answer positively... even when the question is inane or so far off topic that you have not a clue what they(wife,girlfriend) are on about.
Take good council, believe me none of us (men) really have a clue how women are feeling all of time.
Work at your marriage (partnership) harder than you work at anything else. (Anything else will most certainly fail eventually).
Remember the menopause is coming your way, like it or not...be prepared...I wasn't.
Our relationship is far from fully healed...Scottie is fight hard at getting the warp drive repaired. We are still on imulse power...but at least we are moving...and its forward.