Been through this many times with my two. They trash the wired ones in no time at all (cables fail). No such problems since going wireless. If you can avoid it don't buy cheap ones as the batteries aren't great. Been there and done that. I'm sure there are many options but the wireless ones from Microsoft have been the best for my two. Both had them 12 months now and still going strong. Minor niggle with them is that if they use with their laptops, the XBOX turns on too. I haven't found a fix for this yet, so hopefully someone here will chip in to solve it.
They aren't the cheapest either.