We are currently installing one on a new build so understand some of the practicalities. Retrofitting on an existing property could be difficult, the diameter of our pipes range from 125 - 150mm. Systems with narrower ducting are available. Such systems are designed for use on airtight/passive type houses and as such I don’t think are suitable for your intended use.
I would recommend talking to the Green Building Company about your requirements (not used for MVHR but supplied and fitted my triple glazing) as they are very approachable and knowledgeable.