Whoever does not know how to hit the nail on the head should be asked not to hit it at all.
Friedrich Nietzsche
It appears the link I thought I posted I didn’t, oops.
https://forum.tz-uk.com/showthread.p...ghlight=London
I wouldn't live in London now.
Now that I have 2 kids.
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I don't want to have to work 90hrs a week, so that my kids can have tiny bedrooms with no green outside the window, asthma as a holiday hobby, and I worry about crime.
Living in London in my twenties, when I had cash in my pocket, enjoyed renting and lived for myself only, that's another matter.
My house in Cumbria cost less than £500k, I have a 50% mortgage, about 3 acres, sheep for neighbours and we rarely lock our doors.
But but but but, I have a non geographic job, I can do it anywhere. My brother's company has 1 UK office, and it's in the smoke. He commutes in from Harpenden.
I went to Brighton last week to visit my stepson sounds like London but by the sea, no parking very busy can’t get in anywhere decent for a midweek meal without booking 2 days in the advance and £300k for a 2 bed ex council flat I don’t think I will be joining him any time soon
London is not one city, there are layers upon layers, endless fairground rides and adventures to be had on all levels. So I wouldn’t agree that there’s a ‘real London’ and that the West End isn’t it. I used to live in the West End long ago, sitting on rooftops in Soho was as real as anything else. Occasionally you’d meet people from South London who’d say everyone from north of the river was a pretentious git and south London was more ‘real’. A bit too real in places I thought!
A friend told me London was a good place to be young or rich, there’s some truth in that. Lucky for old timers who managed to get on the property ladder back when you could plausibly afford it, I can’t think how it would work now. I’ve loved the cosmopolitan culture drawing in interesting people from all over the world (though now they have to be high earners and less bohemian which is a pity). I’ve also loved the nightlife over the years. Now I generally restrict myself to a few ‘nice bits’ as I’ve served my time in the rest. The worst thing is that friends who start families often get ejected to somewhere more affordable, sometimes in other countries. Once they’ve left, there’s usually no way back.
Agreed, I might have got bored of London I’d had to use the tube at rush hour one too many times. Getting a bike put everything worth visiting an entertaining short hop away, allowing you to do ten different things fun things in a day. Also agreed on Marylebone, and it’s magical to walk through on a quiet evening. Fischer’s do a bloody good schnitzel!
Also agreed, they’ve pretty much ruined it lately :-( Maybe it’s time to give in and get an electric bicycle, there’s almost no other way to get around now. Pity, as I absolutely loved biking round London over the years.
Another bizarre coincidence, because I was just going to mention Soho village, which most people don’t even know exists. I went out for quite w while with a girl that lived there - her kids went to school in Gt Windmill Street. We’d sit on the window sills of her flat looking down at the hustle and bustle, and I could never get used to the way it went from heaving to completely empty in the space of half an hour.
Some friends had kids at that school, and I used to live round there too, so I know what you mean. We used to find our way up to the roof of the Windmill theatre at night, drinking cocktails and looking down at the crowds near Piccadilly Circus from the fantasy turrets at the top. On full moons it would be particularly crazy! But on Sunday mornings you’d have it to yourself. Good times, if a bit chaotic. Soho was very special place back in the day, with its own very bohemian community. Maybe it still is, though it’s probably more sanitised now.
People who say they hate London, they’re just bouncing of the surface or haven’t found the good bits. Or maybe they’re just used to the calm of the countryside, which is fine, that’s lovely too, personally I’ll take both.
I visit London with my young children and have found people to be really friendly. For example people getting up to allow us to sit down on the tube or voluntarily helping with directions when we are looking a bit lost.
However, in contrast to when I have been without my children and it is every man/woman for him/herself when getting on the tube. I did not grasp the concept that I may be the first at the doors opening but not necessarily the first to get on. I quickly learnt.
I also discovered that sometimes you just have to pull out of a junction rather than wait and wait. If there is a gap, you take it.
I remember a previous visit and on my way to a hotel in rush hour and two lanes merging into one, a driver could have easily let me through. He didn't. Yes you have the bigger and posher car but how far ahead are you going get in a huge traffic jam.
I do like London for weekend visits but living here would be too stressful and expensive.