A carbon bar may help Gary, but as to whether it would be enough, only you could tell.
They're not 'cheap' but looking at something like Renthal, would be a good idea as they are high quality and could be cut to length to suit you.
If you're not keen to change tyres or add a suspension fork then this would probably be the first thing to try having already done the changes you have.
You may also consider looking at your riding position to see if you can take any weight off your hands by adjusting stem length, saddle position and angle.
If a bar doesn't give you what you need then a bigger volume tyre would be the next thing - you can still get fast rolling tyres with a bigger volume; you'd need to look at weights, but Schwalbe and Continental (and others, maybe Maxxis) offer light weight tyres with minimal tread.
If that fails then a suspension fork I'm sure would do the job!... but if you like the bike as it is, then that would change it's look and feel more than the other incremental changes.
Cheers
PS. Just a thought, but I'm sure I have some lightweight Maxxis tyres that I had planned to sell at some point. Let me know if that's something you'd like to try.