I think you should stop letting other people dictate what's acceptable or not. Personally, I really can't see any problem with any of the watches pictured above. You're seeing things that aren't there in any meaningful sense.
Perhaps if you really squint at it or maybe examine it under a loupe all day then yes, it will drive you mad, but this would be the behaviour of someone who is mad anyway.
Otherwise, you can put the watch on, wear it and not worry about a gnat's cock worth of
misalignment.
Just my opinion anyway