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    I'll never understand women

    Today I agreed with a guy a price for my Daytona. When I told my wife, I thought she'd be happy I was letting it go at a reasonable profit. To my amazement, she was not happy at all. In fact I'm I'm still in the doghouse. Her reasoning was I'd be getting rid of my best watch and keeping others that were not in the same league. (Suppose she has a point). One consolation is I can still order the Tudor Black Bay 58 I was going to put some of the money towards.

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    They don't like it when you buy, and don't like it when you sell...

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    I would be in the doghouse ( strike that I would be single again) if my wife ever found out how much I had paid for any of my watches never mind what I have sold some for , I work on the basis ignorance is bliss were the wife & my watches co exist.

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    She’s right. (That’s the problem with women - far too logical).

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    Nor I.

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    You’ve over communicated

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    You talk to your wife...?!

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    Ask missus opinion and do completely opposite thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Benji053 View Post
    Nor I.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ~dadam02~ View Post
    You talk to your wife...?!
    We all make mistakes


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    Hate to say it......

    Hate to say it but she is right..How often does that happen?

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    I hope you put her in her place as close to the kitchen sink as possible. You are not doing a good job of keeping the sink filled with dirty dishes. This is the reason you had time to talk to her!

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    Women are funny creatures.

    However, she might have a point - replacing a Rolex with a Tudor could easily be seen as a crazy move

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gullers View Post
    You’ve over communicated
    Rookie error easy repeated

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    My dad once said to me, 'son, with women, when you're in the right, you're wrong and when you're in the wrong, you're doubly so.'

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    Told 3 female work colleagues I was done with my recently acquired Rolex Root beer and that I didnt like it any more. Response was great, they didnt want to say anything before but now I'd had an epiphany they said wearing Rolex was borderline chavvy (in the way having a Louis Vuitton handbag is with women) and that many people actually look down on people who wear Rolex for lacking individuality! That's me told then!

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    You used a Daytona to pay for a Black Bay? She’s a keeper and you should listen to her more.
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    When my wife says to me is that a new watch
    I just say what this old thing I’ve had it ages
    Works for her on handbags boots etc etc


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    Quote Originally Posted by Itsguy View Post
    You used a Daytona to pay for a Black Bay? She’s a keeper and you should listen to her more.
    I thought your previous point was excellent in principle, and didn't need deleting entirely. Perhaps have a second go at it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ryanb741 View Post
    ..... they said wearing Rolex was borderline chavvy (in the way having a Louis Vuitton handbag is with women) and that many people actually look down on people who wear Rolex for lacking individuality!........

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    Interesting viewpoint.

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    You bought a lot of watches lately
    Stay in the doghouse :)

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    Tell them nothing...they will notice eventually but by that time its to late.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mitch1956 View Post
    I would be in the doghouse ( strike that I would be single again) if my wife ever found out how much I had paid for any of my watches never mind what I have sold some for , I work on the basis ignorance is bliss were the wife & my watches co exist.
    Likewise, when she asks if one is new I just say I've had it for a while and change subject. We have an unspoken truce - she knows if she digs into it too much it will end in an almighty argument, so let's sleeping dogs lie I think!

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    She once went makeup shopping and bought this cream for £50 a tube. She put it on, turned to me and said "This cream is great, once you've applied it, you can't see it." It reminded me of The Emperor's New Clothes.

    Thanks for all your wise and knowledgable replies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ajdh View Post
    Today I agreed with a guy a price for my Daytona. When I told my wife, I thought she'd be happy I was letting it go at a reasonable profit. To my amazement, she was not happy at all. In fact I'm I'm still in the doghouse. Her reasoning was I'd be getting rid of my best watch and keeping others that were not in the same league. (Suppose she has a point). One consolation is I can still order the Tudor Black Bay 58 I was going to put some of the money towards.
    I regard my wife as a safety valve to stop me doing stupid things.

    I have a policy of never ever selling a watch and I have never sold one in my life. One of my watches is a Rolex 16520 Zenith Daytona and a couple of months ago I was thinking of selling it and just putting the money into equities.

    It was the wife who talked me out of it.

    She has also suggested that I buy myself a PP which I regard as very nice of her.

    I took a very bad fall 3 weeks ago which has left me totally crocked up and will take a few months to get over. She has now banned me from buying anymore motorcycles for the remainder of my life. This has made me a bit grumpy but at the age of me being 70, I know that she is right.

    Basically we all need a wife even if we don't admit it.

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    Don't try to understand Women, Women understand Women and they all hate each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mick P View Post
    I regard my wife as a safety valve to stop me doing stupid things.

    I have a policy of never ever selling a watch and I have never sold one in my life. One of my watches is a Rolex 16520 Zenith Daytona and a couple of months ago I was thinking of selling it and just putting the money into equities.

    It was the wife who talked me out of it.

    She has also suggested that I buy myself a PP which I regard as very nice of her.

    I took a very bad fall 3 weeks ago which has left me totally crocked up and will take a few months to get over. She has now banned me from buying anymore motorcycles for the remainder of my life. This has made me a bit grumpy but at the age of me being 70, I know that she is right.

    Basically we all need a wife even if we don't admit it.
    I gave up motorbikes when I reached 60. Turned out, the older you get, the faster you were. It does take time to get over the urge to get on one again, I've gone into recession a few times and it's worse when you watch a MotoGP race. I'm 72 now and the realisation I did the right thing is slowly setting in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Merkaholic View Post
    I hope you put her in her place as close to the kitchen sink as possible. You are not doing a good job of keeping the sink filled with dirty dishes. This is the reason you had time to talk to her!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Merkaholic View Post
    I hope you put her in her place as close to the kitchen sink as possible. You are not doing a good job of keeping the sink filled with dirty dishes. This is the reason you had time to talk to her!

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    Quote Originally Posted by g40steve View Post
    That’s a new keyboard needed, nearly choked on my coffee :)
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    Quote Originally Posted by ryanb741 View Post
    Told 3 female work colleagues I was done with my recently acquired Rolex Root beer and that I didnt like it any more. Response was great, they didnt want to say anything before but now I'd had an epiphany they said wearing Rolex was borderline chavvy (in the way having a Louis Vuitton handbag is with women) and that many people actually look down on people who wear Rolex for lacking individuality! That's me told then!

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    Well Ryan they do have a point - a view that seems to growing in a few of the younger generations. Stuff of nightmares for Rollie execs 👹
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vanguard View Post
    Don't try to understand Women, Women understand Women and they all hate each other.
    I cant believe I've never heard that before as it makes such perfect sense
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    I can see where this thread is going....... If OP takes our advice he might need a good brief

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    My basic strategy is not to tell 'er indoors when I buy a watch of any significant value. I have so many watches that an unfamiliar watch is never going to pique her curiosity.

    However I can't imagine she'd be bothered in the slightest if I were to sell my most valuable watch (my 16750, I suppose).

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    If you ever figure out how to understand women keep it a secret, if they find out they’ll send a hitman after you!

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    My wife notices my strap changes but not the actual watch! It’s brilliant get away with lots oh just the strap changed

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    Quote Originally Posted by strell View Post
    My wife notices my strap changes but not the actual watch! It’s brilliant get away with lots oh just the strap changed
    I'll have to try that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny View Post
    Interesting viewpoint.
    Probably more common than you imagine though...

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    Some secrets are best not told to the other half but I think she’s right and the Daytona will serve better later if you decide to sale. My advice would been to keep it with this in mind. When you sell a watch think of how hard it will be to replace if you sale it, especially after its hunt and or sentimental value.
    Last edited by milwatch126; 5th October 2019 at 17:08.

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    Neither will I. We were having lunch at the royal exchange and said to her let’s browse in watch finder to see what Rolexes they have. She really liked a vintage 16710LN (was amazing but at 10k no thanks!) and the root beer but said the one she loved most was the Sea-Dweller Deepsea with the black face! Never ever thought she would like something like that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by milwatch126 View Post
    Some secrets are best not told to the other half but I think she’s right and the Daytona will serve better later if you decide to sale. My advice would been to keep it with this in mind. When you sell a watch think of how hard it will be to replace if you sale it, especially after its hunt and or sentimental value.
    It doesn't have any sentimental value but there is a danger that the prices have topped out. It's only four years old so I'll keep it a while longer and if my name comes up for the ceramic version, I might think about releasing it then.

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    I've got to admit, my wife is no fool. So she won't be out of her depth if I pop my clogs, she looks after the money. She gives me my spending money when I want it, then sends me out to do the shopping but doesn't give me any extra.

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    Quote Originally Posted by milwatch126 View Post
    When you sell a watch think of how hard it will be to replace if you sale it
    I think this is very good advice. Just like buyer's remorse, there can be seller's remorse. And replacing a watch can be much harder and/or more expensive when it comes to buying one the second time around.

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    Mine is the opposite , weirdly encourages my Watch collection. She was annoyed I sold my Paneria , but I wasn’t wearing it . I think I will sell two more watches that aren’t getting any wrist time.

    She’s a big fan of Rolex .

    She only had one which sadly got stolen so we’re awaiting a replacement .

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