Dad sounds like a wise man and I’d have to agree with him
Back in the day it was flat out everywhere on my ZZR, GSXr etc. But now with the cruiser vibe going on, I find I’m enjoying my riding so much more.
On occasion I may ride with the fast guys (and gals) and if I’m on my Ducati, I think should I make an effort And try to go with them?
I soon remember that riding like that just isn’t my thing anymore, and so settle into my own comfortable zone. I’ll usually arrive at our destination within a minute or so of the fast folk, and listen to their tales of near misses and close calls.
Chilled out riding is so much more pleasurable, and you can do it all day long.