It seems that the process now is a lot more easier but I am still getting conflicting advice regarding what 'court orders I need.

On the basis that the divorce is amicable (as much as it can be) I have been told that a parenting plan and a letter of undertaking (duly signed by both parents) is sufficient.

On the other hand, one of the solicitors I spoke to you was pushing for me to get a financial order and a custody order. The former is far more involved with lots of evidence of assets and income, while the latter is easier but very prescriptive.

While I am happy to have a looser arrangement regarding the children, so I can get more access if need be I would like to make sure that a letter of undertaking is sufficient. We have agreed split of assets and support etc, its just finding the most sensible and cost effective way of doing it, without loads more stress.

thanks