Originally Posted by
bitfield
A frustrating experience, I'm sure, but from what you've said, you've at least partly brought it on yourself.
Firstly, the bracelet. If you choose to modify your watch, it's at your own risk, and Rolex reserves the right not to work on it. If they agreed to re-brush the bracelet for you, which is against their normal policy, you can hardly complain that it's not done the way you like it.
Secondly, the date wheel issue. It shouldn't have been misaligned, but no QC is perfect, and perhaps not every customer would notice the difference. You sent it back, rightly, and if you're still not happy with it you should send it back again. If you refuse to do that out of pique, you can hardly blame Rolex for not fixing something you haven't asked them to.
Thirdly, the timekeeping. It's not unusual for a watch to change its timekeeping a bit when serviced (after all, the whole thing has been taken apart and cleaned and re-lubricated). It's also not uncommon for timekeeping to vary a bit while a new or serviced watch beds in over a few weeks. Given that, there's no point your complaining to Rolex or asking them to regulate it, at least for a month or so. You point out yourself that it is inconsistent at the moment, so what would be the point of trying to regulate it until it shows a consistent rate?
So if you deconstruct this 'terrible' service experience, it basically comes down to a minutely misaligned date wheel, which I dare say Rolex would offer to fix, except that you've already made up your mind you'll never deal with them again. Well, that's up to you, but don't complain that it's all Rolex's fault.