Hi, I can see where you are coming from. I have been married for six years, just turned thirty and for the last five or so years it has been mainly about work, coming home late, watching a bit of telly and going to bed etc. Luckily I have now been given something which I am sure will give my life a new meaning -a little daughter on the way- and I think sometimes there just needs to be a trigger either from within yourself or from the outside to give you some more motivation and to help you enjoy life! Hope you'll find it.